Bid adieu to humdrum monotonous sex with this fantastic guide that tells you exactly what you should get. These are 72 tips that will definitely unleash the carnal animal in both you and your partner!
Start At The Beginning
1. Make sure you get colors right. Colors can set the mood for a great sexual experience. Red is a wonderful color of passion. Set the mood with this color.
2. Encourage your partner to remain at the outward end as much as possible. According to a survey conducted by Masters and Johnson and several other studies, it is the outside one-third of the female vaginal tract that is the most highly responsive to sexual stimulation. So, instead of going in deep, just shallow surfacing is good for a satisfying experience for you.
3. Do not become predictable with your sex. Try different options each time. Why get fixated with the bedroom? You could try different venues, different times, go on a holiday, etc. It helps bring the newness in your sexual experience.
4. Have you ever contemplated sex in the bathtub? The bathtub has an erotica of its own and that is the reason so many movies have bathtub scenes and some of them even have bathtub sex scenes! Well, don’t shoot this idea unless you have tried it!
5. Make oral sex a part of the routine. This is a really great way to arouse your man and then get the favor reciprocated in kind. Some vibrating machines can add to the excitement of oral sex. These machines can be connected to the tongue and lead to some very exciting sensations.
6. The whole process of sex doesn’t have to be just about the intercourse. It can also be a lot of fun and you can learn a lot more about your partner if you involve things like games. There are a lot of great adult board games out there, or just a fun little game of strip poker would do.
7. Women are perennially complaining about not coming to their orgasms. Well, there are things that could help. One of the ways you could do this is to place a pillow below the butt which raises the vaginal area to an optimal position. This is a great position for getting the most optimum contact of the penis with the clitoris, always helping in reaching earth-shattering orgasms.
8. Sick of housework? why not make it fun, put your washing machine to much better use! Have your man sit upon the working machine then straddle him. The vibrations coming off the machine and through your man will make this one hot experience.
9. If you are doing this washing machine thing, you need to select a mode that gives you a long time for enjoyment. Something like a longer wash cycle will really help.
10. If you like using sex toys such as vibrators, butt plugs or butt beads, don’t be afraid to let your partner know. If these things excite you then they are likely to excite your partner as well. The more aroused you both are, the more intense the experience will be.
11. The most important thing is communication. If neither of you vocalise what turns you on, how will you ever know how to please each other? Ask her what she likes, and make sure you tell her what you like. Always let her know how sexy you think she is, if you let her know this then she will feel and act like the sex bomb you know she is.
12. An incredibly important part of foreplay is masturbation. This helps your lady’s body to prepare for the act of intercourse, it also gets her incredibly horny. This can be done with either your fingers or a vibrator or dildo.
13. Learn all the scents of your partners body. Slowly travel over her body inhaling the scent as you go, this will have an unbelievable effect on her. She will feel your breath on her body as you journey along her body.
14. Did you know that what a man eats can effect the taste of his sperm? If you want a more pleasant taste, get him to consume things with lemon, cardamon, peppermint or cinnamon in them.
15. Stay away from strong smelling foods like garlic or onions, not only do they make your breath smell, but can also exude from the pores in your skin.
16. Onions and garlic can also effect the taste of your sperm, even if you ate them days ago. The same is also true for foods like asparagus, curry and chilli.
17. One thing you have to experience is sex outdoors. Just make sure you don’t get caught. Sex in your own backyard when the neighbors are away can be quite exciting.
18. Does it seem like your woman is just too busy for sex? Try this little trick. Kiss the back of your ladies neck, slowly and sensually, then slide your hands up and down her body. This often works.
The Right Sex Position Means a Lot
19. The missionary position is the most used one for a reason, it is comfortable for both parties and enables a man to penetrate deeply.
20. Another reason the missionary position is good is that it enables you to see your partners facial expressions, you will know just how much she is enjoying herself.
21. Body to body contact is always highly erotic, try giving your man a body slide. Cover your front with oil or talc and slide up and down his body.
22. Have your lady ride you like a cowgirl. This is a great way to break the routing of the missionary position.
23. Don’t think doggy style is too embarrassing. It is a wonderful pose if you are into anal sex. It also gives him great pleasure because this particular position squeezes his penis on the sides, which is quite a different feeling for him.
24. Have you heard of the spoons position? Try it out. This is probably the most non-stressing positions of all. It only requires you and your partner to lie side by side in the form of a spoon and allowing him to penetrate you anally. You could also alternatively take his penis between your legs and masturbate him.
25. Mutual masturbation is great in the spoons position. With his penis placed between your legs, his back and forth action will arouse your clitoris.
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26. Food items can make unbelievable additions to sex. Ice cubes to tighten nipples, chocolate sauce for licking off bodies, honey for that sweet sticky sex. If it is in your fridge or pantry, you can probably use it during sex.
27. Grapes and ice cubes can be great fun. Run them along each other’s bodies and feel the cold sensations tingling all over.
28. This is another sex-citing game. Paint lines on your man with a black marker pen in a paint-by-numbers kind of pattern. Then dab different kinds of ice-cream flavors on the different regions that are formed. Ask your man to call out different numbers and you go ahead and lick the ice-cream from that particular area. This can turn real hot! Don’t forget to ask the man to return the favor.
29. One of the most phallic looking vegetables has to be the cucumber and if you have an extremely cold cucumber, the effects on both you and your partner are unimaginable.
30. Alcohol can do some nasty things as well. Try pouring some on your partner’s body in all the right places and then licking it off. You could try some flavored alcohol to make things more interesting.
31. You might have seen so many movies where couples seduce each other by sliding ice cubes down their bodies. Well, you could try that too. Or, to make things more interesting, you could try sliding down stuff like frozen berries.
32. Have you heard of the sex and chocolate catchline? There’s really something to it. Chocolate has a range of chemicals that can set your hormones racing in the right direction. And better still is cheese. Sit and eat chocolate and cheese together in your prelude to sex and you will see some great things happening. Just remember to use dark chocolate.
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33. Did you know that a great kick start to any morning sex session is a cereal with almonds and apples? Give it a try.
34. A great mood food to try is avocado.
35. And when you are talking about the right alcohol to set you in the right sexual mood, then what can be better than some champagne? Swirl it some in your mouth and then let it go inside slowly. And when the champagne is in your mouth, you can actually interlock tongues with your partner and make things so very hot.
36. Always keep some good mints ready. This is handy advice because you don’t know when you will be kissing someone and that could lead to a great experience to remember for a long time.
Unleash Your Passion
37. You must have heard that all men like to be masturbated by their women. When doing so, don’t be too gentle on him; he won’t like it. Jack his rod in a vertical back and forth direction without bending his penis. Keep a firm grip but don’t bend the penis too much. He will like it this way. You could also ask him to masturbate in front of you and you can do it too and learn from each other J
38. If you want your woman to deep throat you during oral sex, you must take it slow and steady to begin with otherwise all you will end up with is vomit on the end of your penis. The best position for you both to be in is you standing and her on her knees in front of you.
39. Most women don’t know how to deep throat. It can be painful and often uncomfortable. If that is how you feel, you could at least rub the head of his penis against the roof of your mouth, i.e. the palate.
40. When it comes to performing oral sex on your man, don’t think that licking it up and down like an ice cream is what he wants, some guys like really rough oral sex so it is always best to ask him first.
41. If your woman is boring at oral sex and just sucks up and down on your penis, try giving her some lube to rub on your penis so she can slide her hand up and down as she sucks away.
42. Mood music is what is called for. This will help you both relax and focus completely on each other, and will help him get more satisfaction out of what you are doing to him.
43. If you like having your anus explored, don’t be afraid to ask. If your lady is a little put off by this, try using a slim vibrator, dildo, anal toy or even a candle. Have your lady give you oral sex as she slowly inserts the item into your anus.
44. Watching pornography during sex can be beneficial to both parties. You can both learn new positions to try and it is a good way to get each other highly excited.
Carnal Pleasures and Animal Positions
45. Have you heard how gorillas do it? These huge animals actually spend very little time in the actual sexual penetration part of it. But they do have a very long foreplay in which they groom each other. You can do this ritual as well.Have a bath together, get each other all soapy and slippery and so on.
46. One animal that can teach us all a lesson or two is the seal. Seals have been known to be quite aggressive when having sex; they will actually bite each other. Today, biting has been scientifically proven to be a great sex precursor, because it stimulates blood into the area and makes it more sexually receptive. So, try some gentle biting.
47. And you could always take about the giant water bug, the male of who can go on with a sexual episode for as much as a day and a half without stopping! His male ego will definitely be aroused and he will want to go on longer.
Get into Your Man’s Mind
48. . When you are using the woman on top position, do a little extra maneuver. Instead of just going up and down as most women do, try going diagonally and sideways as well. This will be really great for your man and you will feel him more inside you. Try it!
49. Have some quick drying alcohol such as vodka ready with you. When you are into the mood for sex, take a swig of it and then lick him on the nipples and the nape of his neck. Then allow the vodka to dry. You could actually assist the whole thing by lightly blowing air on it. He is going to enjoy this to no end.
50. If you are too shy to just go ahead and touch your man, try standing behind him,with your nipples touching his back. Bring your hands to his front and touch his penis and nipples and lightly masturbate him. Gradually increase the force.
51. A classical position is the girl wrap position and it is always a hit. You have to be quite athletic for it but it sure is worth the effort; you can allow your man to penetrate you fully.
52. Try to keep your shirt on! Honestly! Some men just love the suspense . They don’t want to see their women fully naked too soon. Try giving him a striptease and see how far it goes. You could also dress up specially for giving him a striptease. How about some leather boots?
53. Tell your lady that your greatest fantasy is to have her go down on your while you are asleep or when you have just woken up. Believe me, she will try it and neither of you will be sorry.
54. A great suggestion is to introduce your lady to some vaginal exercises known as kegel. These exercises tighten the vaginal and pelvic floor muscles and increases sensitivity in the vaginal region.
55. Ben-Wa balls are not mere sex toys. If used regularly, your lady can actually make her vagina much harder, tighter and sexier.
56. When your lady is performing oral sex, don’t just allow her to please you p with her mouth. The peripheral things that she does are also important. You should use have her use her hands as well. Get her to stimulate your nipples and prostate while she is sucking you. No man can resist that.
57. Masturbation and oral sex become extremely important when you cannot have penetrative sex, such as when you are pregnant or going through your periods. Try looking up new ways for stimulating your partner through such techniques.
58. It truly is a myth that women orgasm only when they are penetrated. It is not important actually. A man can easily stimulate your G spot or clitoris and bring you to a climax. Try educating your man on how to do this.
59. You can use your bra or panties to great effect. Just take it off sexily and then tie it to his penis, at the shaft. This will really set him into another world. You can now make things more exciting by beginning to lick him all over. See how he gets hard, and keep pulling the garment tighter all the time so that he starts feeling more and more of the wonderful sensation.
60. Kinky is wonderful for most people. Why not give it a try?. Tie your man up, and tease him all over. If he doesn’t like that, you could just hold him by the wrists and have him to yourself, just as you want it.
61. When performing oral sex on your lady, the correct way is to swirl your tongue in the opening of her vagina and then slide your tongue upwards and flick it over the clitoris, some women also enjoy having their labia sucked.
62. Say it with mirrors! It is so hot to see yourself and your partner in action. Truly incredible.
63. You could go all out and try recording the whole thing on camera as well. The very idea that you are making your own porn movie makes most people come.
64. Try the sideways position when your partner is performing oral sex on you. Lie on your side with one leg on the bed and the other leg in the air.
65. Why not try massaging each other and then hold each other very closely. The oil can produce a truly magnificent sensation.
66. Find your lady’s G-Spot. The easiest way to explain it is if you slide your finger inside her vagina and then crook your finger back towards you, you will feel a rough little bumpy mound. That is the G-Spot
67. Do the dishes naked. And ask your man to go about his normal routine naked too. You won’t know how much you are turning on your partner when you are doing this.
68. You could have some great excitement if you choose the right clothes and the right ambiance. Go shopping and buy some sexy lingerie, something that your partner hasn’t seen you in ever. Then set up some candles and either cook or order some great dinner. When he comes over, give him a surprise. It would set the right mood for a night full of fun.
69. Masturbation is quite important. You need to masturbate your man during foreplay. It sets the right mood for everything else that is to follow.
70. Use every sense that you have been given to enjoy your partner, the sense of sight, the sense of smell, the sense of taste and the sense of touch.
71. have your lady shave or wax off all her pubic hair for a nice treat.
72. Close body contact with each other is going to lead to the most erotic experiences. Learn every little thing you man likes and needs and teach him the same thing about you. Explore each other with passion.
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