Say goodbye to ordinary, everyday lovemaking. This wonderful 72 step guide will show you how to make the most of your efforts and how to get the best rewards!
The Real Basics
1. The colors you choose to surround yourself with during your lovemaking can have more of an impact than you could possibly imagine. Red is the universal color of passion, and always a good color of choice.
2. A research survey done by Masters and Johnson has shown that the outer areas of a woman’s vagina is the highest erogenous zones on her body, so teasing and tasting this area is sure to work up both her and you.
3. Introduce new ideas to your lady, such as having sex in places other than the bedroom. The shower is always a good place to start, then as you both get more adventurous, maybe outdoors?
4. An exciting idea is to book a hotel room for the night. Make sure this hotel room has a large bathtub. So many movies feature a sex/lovemaking scene in a bathtub, so why not give it a try.
5. Mutual oral sex is a wonderful part of foreplay or even a good substitute for full sex. There are even vibrating toys available that you attach to your tongue enabling you to go that little bit further.
6. Sex needn’t be just about sex; you should know that. Make things interesting. How about playing a very sexy game like strip poker or something like that which adds to the passion and serves as a wonderful prelude to a night full of sex? Search the Internet for more such sex games.
7. Women are perennially complaining about not coming to their orgasms. Well, there are things that could help. One of the ways you could do this is to place a pillow below the butt which raises the vaginal area to an optimal position. This is a great position for getting the most optimum contact of the penis with the clitoris, always helping in reaching earth-shattering orgasms.
8. A very interesting way to have sex would be if the man sits on top of a washing machine. Seriously! A washing machine can give some great vibrations that add to the thrust factor. The woman should then clamber over the man and allow the man to penetrate her while he is still on the machine.
9. Just remember to make sure the machine is on a long wash cycle. Nothing breaks the mood easier than being done too soon.
10. If you regularly use a vibrator or other sex toys, do not be afraid to let your partner know. You want to be sure that you both get the maximum pleasure from your experience and if a vibe gets you off then that is what you should use. You will find that your partner is just as excited about it as you are.
11. Never forget to communicate with your partner. You will never be left satisfied if you don’t let him know exactly what you want and where you want it. You must also ask him what he wants and how he wants it. He may ask you to do things that make you uncomfortable but you could always try it out.
12. Get to know your man’s penis by masturbating him. Ask him what he likes or get him to show you how he masturbates himself. Men are just as different as women as how they please themselves. Once you have learned what he likes, you can then introduce other things like cock-rings.
13. Smell. The sense of smell is extremely important to good sex. Let your man smell you all over. You will love it when he rubs his nose against the different parts of your body and we aren’t just talking about the genitals.
14. There are certain things that you should feed your man; they can make his cum taste all the more better. A list of things you could include in his diet are lemon, cardamom, peppermint and cinnamon.
15. Make sure neither yourself or your partner eat strong smelling foods like onions or garlic otherwise your may find yourself or him put off by the odour.
16. Onions and garlic can also effect the taste of your sperm, even if you ate them days ago. The same is also true for foods like asparagus, curry and chilli.
17. Try outdoor sex sometime; it is really exhilarating. However, you have to be cautious to do it very carefully or you could be arrested J Try having sex in your own yard when night falls or on a lone highway when you are driving through.
18. If your man is too busy to have sex with you, you can effectively seduce him this way. When he is sitting on his chair, working, get below the table and start licking his cock through his pants. No man can resist that!
The Right Sex Position Means a Lot
19. The missionary position is the most timeworn, most guaranteed position for a sex episode of night. It allows your man to penetrate you to the highest degree and leads to ultimate satisfaction to both of you.
20. The missionary position also has a little secret. When you are laying on your back in this position, your vaginal canal gets folded and becomes shorter making your man feel he has a larger penis.
21. You could also try just letting your man lie on top of you, face down, when you are lying on a bed on your back. This position allows both of you to feel each other’s bodies to the maximum limit and creates the greatest degree of arousal.
22. Have your lady ride you like a cowgirl. This is a great way to break the routing of the missionary position.
23. If you like anal sex or just want to do something a little different, try doggy style. A man get a much different sensation on his penis in this position.
24. The spoon position is something that usually happens in the afterglow of sex. But why not try it as a sexual position instead? Enter your partner from behind, either anally or vaginally.
25. The spoons position can also be used for mutual masturbation. Placing your penis between her thighs and rubbing back and forth is sure to excite you both, you will be rubbing against her clitoris as you do this.
Table Manners - Sex!
26. There are many ways in which you can bring food into your sexual act and make things much more interesting. Ice-cream has a great reputation for that. You could try a wonderful experiment by sticking an ice-cream cone over his penis and then licking at the ice-cream on it. He will be totally turned on, for sure!
27. Fruit and vegetables can also be a lot of fun. If you are both game for it, things like carrots or bananas can be inserted into various orifices.
28. Try this sexy little bedroom game. Paint 12 squares on your man’s body. Number each square and then put a different item of food in each square. Get him to call out a number and then you have to eat that item without using your hands.
29. Cucumber can make for a very fun experience too. Cool it down completely, then cut it into half and rub it on each other’s bodies. Cucumber has special effects when rubbed on the genitals—you have to just check out these experiences.
30. Alcohol is also a great sex tool, and no, not drinking it. Bubbly champagne tickles if poured on a naked body.
31. Ice cubes can be great fun, but why not liven it up with something a little out of the ordinary? Try using frozen berries or frozen fruit instead.
32. Are you one of those that think a good chocolate is like good sex? Well you are right. Chocolate has many ingredients in it which stimulate the same regions as sex does. Chocolate is a must in any good romp. Cheese also includes a lot of similar chemicals and should not be forgotten.
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33. Did you know that a great kick start to any morning sex session is a cereal with almonds and apples? Give it a try.
34. There are several mood foods for sex. Avocado is one. Try it out.
35. As mentioned before, champagne can be a great sex aid, but it is also good to drink. It makes your tongue tingle and therefore makes it more sensitive when kissing. Try holding a small amount in your mouth and then swallow it just before kissing your man.
36. A good hint is to always keep some breath mints handy. You never know when you may find yourself about to kiss someone.
Unleash the Passion
37. You must have heard that all men like to be masturbated by their women. When doing so, don’t be too gentle on him; he won’t like it. Jack his rod in a vertical back and forth direction without bending his penis. Keep a firm grip but don’t bend the penis too much. He will like it this way. You could also ask him to masturbate in front of you and you can do it too and learn from each other J
38. Allow him to deep throat you. When he does that, the head of his penis touches the back of your throat and gets some electric sensations. You can easily deep throat your partner if he stands and you take his cock in your mouth in a kneeling position with your head slightly tilted backward.
39. Most women aren’t expert at deep throating. They find it painful and uncomfortable. If you feel that way too, then you can at least get the head of his cock to rub against the roof of your mouth, i.e. the palate. Keep a very firm grip on the portion of his penis shaft that is outside your mouth.
40. A lot of women think that a man likes to have his penis licked up and down like a lolly. This isn’t always the case and if it is something you will have to tell her how you want it.
41. Just sucking up and down on your man’s penis can actually be quite boring for him, try rubbing the base of his cock with your hand as you suck away on the head.
42. Music is a must during sex. It helps to relax you and your partner and also helps you to focus on the task at hand.
43. If you like having your anus explored, don’t be afraid to ask. If your lady is a little put off by this, try using a slim vibrator, dildo, anal toy or even a candle. Have your lady give you oral sex as she slowly inserts the item into your anus.
44. Viewing pornography together before sex can be very arousing. See if you can both sit through a whole movie watching other people fuck without jumping each other.
Carnal Pleasures and Animal Positions
45. Do you know how gorillas do it? These big animals actually spend very little time in the real sexual penetration part of it. But they have a very long foreplay in which they mostly groom each other. You can do this whole ritual as well. Give each other a bath, scrub each other’s back and so on. You will feel the heat coming on!
46. Another animal that can teach us a lesson or two is the seal. Seals can be quite aggressive when having sex; they actually bite each other. Today, biting has been scientifically proven to be a great precursor to sex, because it stimulates blood in the area and makes it more sexually receptive. So, try some gentle biting, or some hard biting.
47. Talk about the giant water bug, the male of which can go on asexual episode for as much as a day and a half without stopping! His male ego will definitely be aroused.
Get into Your Man’s Mind
48. Try this . When you have your woman on top of you encourage her to move in other ways than just backwards and forwards, have her rotate her hips. Also have her slide up towards the tip of your penis and then back down til she is fully and deeply penetrated.
49. Have some quick drying alcohol such as vodka ready with you. When you are into the mood for sex, take a swig of it and then lick him on the nipples and the nape of his neck. Then allow the vodka to dry. You could actually assist the whole thing by lightly blowing air on it. He is going to enjoy this to no end.
50. If you are too shy to just go ahead and touch your man, try standing behind him,with your nipples touching his back. Bring your hands to his front and touch his penis and nipples and lightly masturbate him. Gradually increase the force.
51. The classic girl wrap position is always a sure hit. You have to be a bit athletic for it but it is worth the effort; you can allow your man to penetrate you fully.
52. Ask your lady to keep an item of clothing on, this can lead to huge suspense. Maybe she leaves on an item of underwear or a pair of high heel shoes or boots. Maybe suggest she give you a little striptease and then you tell her to stop before she strips it all off.
53. Another great—sorry, very great—thing for men is to give them a nice little licking when they are still limp. Just go under and give them some great swirls of the tongue and see how they harden up. This will be a great prelude to a great sexual episode. Plus, it also gives you the great confidence that you can make your man hard with just a few simple maneuvers.
54. If you want great sexual experiences every time, you will have to work on it. Try some vaginal exercises known as kegels. These exercises make the muscles in your vaginal area tighter, which means a much better sexual experience for both of you.
55. Have you heard about Ben-Wa balls? These are not mere sex toys. If you use them regularly, you can actually make your vagina much harder and sexier.
56. When you are performing about oral sex, don’t just go about pleasing your man with your mouth. The peripheral things that you do are important. You should use your hands often as well. Use them to stimulate his nipples and his anus and his prostate while you are sucking him. No man will resist that.
57. Masturbation and oral sex can become extremely important when you cannot have penetrating sex, such as if you are pregnant or having your periods. Try searching for new ways to stimulate your partner through such techniques.
58. It is a myth that women come to orgasm only when they are penetrated. It is not important actually. A man can easily stimulate her G spot or clitoris and bring her to an earth shattering climax. Try educating your man on how to do this.
59. You can use your bra, stocking or panties to great effect. Just take them off sexily and tie his penis, at the shaft. This will really send him into another world. Now make things more exciting by beginning to tease him all over with your tongue and your fingertips. Keep pulling the garment tighter so that he starts feeling more and more of the wonderful sensation.
60. Kinky is great for most people. Try it out. Tie up your man, and lick him all over. If he doesn’t like being done that, you could just hold him by the wrists and have him to yourself, just as you want it.
61. When performing oral sex on your lady, the correct way is to swirl your tongue in the opening of her vagina and then slide your tongue upwards and flick it over the clitoris, some women also enjoy having their labia sucked.
62. Say it with mirrors! It is so hot to see yourself and your partner in action. Truly incredible.
63. You could go all out and try recording the whole thing on camera as well. The very idea that you are making your own porn movie makes most people come.
64. Try the sideways position when your partner is performing oral sex on you. Lie on your side with one leg on the bed and the other leg in the air.
65. Why not massage each other with oil and then slip slide all over each other?
66. Show your man how to find your G-Spot and exactly how to stimulate it to the best effect.
67. Do the dishes naked. And ask your man to go about his normal routine naked too. You won’t know how much you are turning on your partner when you are doing this.
68. You could have some great excitement if you choose the right clothes and the right ambiance. Go shopping and buy some sexy lingerie, something that your partner hasn’t seen you in ever. Then set up some candles and either cook or order some great dinner. When he comes over, give him a surprise. It would set the right mood for a night full of fun.
69. Masturbation is quite important. You need to masturbate your man during foreplay. It sets the right mood for everything else that is to follow.
70. Don’t only use your hands. although hands are important, you need to use everything you have got. Use your eyes to see your partner, use your nose to smell him, use your tongue to lick him and use your body to seduce him.
71. have your lady shave or wax off all her pubic hair for a nice treat.
72. Contact with your partner is the most important thing. Touching each other from head to toe. Discovering each others wants and needs. Enjoy every part of each other. This is what makes sex fantastic.
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