No longer will you have to endure, boring lovemaking. Just by following these 72 exciting tips you will gain that extra knowledge that will ensure you blow your and your partners minds.
The Bare Necessities
1. Ensure your surroundings reflect the passion you are feeling. Colors play a very important part! Red is always a great selection.
2. A research survey done by Masters and Johnson has shown that the outer areas of a woman’s vagina is the highest erogenous zones on her body, so teasing and tasting this area is sure to work up both her and you.
3. Introduce new ideas to your lady, such as having sex in places other than the bedroom. The shower is always a good place to start, then as you both get more adventurous, maybe outdoors?
4. Have you ever contemplated sex in the bathtub? The bathtub has an erotica of its own and that is the reason so many movies have bathtub scenes and some of them even have bathtub sex scenes! Well, don’t shoot this idea unless you have tried it!
5. Mutual oral sex is a wonderful part of foreplay or even a good substitute for full sex. There are even vibrating toys available that you attach to your tongue enabling you to go that little bit further.
6. Sex needn’t be just about sex; you should know that. Make things interesting. How about playing a very sexy game like strip poker or something like that which adds to the passion and serves as a wonderful prelude to a night full of sex? Search the Internet for more such sex games.
7. The most common complaint from women is that they don’t get to achieve orgasm most of the time. There is a position that may help her get to the pinnacle of passion. Try placing a pillow under her buttocks, this raises the vagina to a better position and helps aid in the penis to clitoris contact.
8. Sick of housework? why not make it fun, put your washing machine to much better use! Have your man sit upon the working machine then straddle him. The vibrations coming off the machine and through your man will make this one hot experience.
9. If you are doing this washing machine thing, you need to select a mode that gives you a long time for enjoyment. Something like a longer wash cycle will really help.
10. If you like using sex toys such as vibrators, butt plugs or butt beads, don’t be afraid to let your partner know. If these things excite you then they are likely to excite your partner as well. The more aroused you both are, the more intense the experience will be.
11. Conversation is the key to romance and good sex. Don’t turn on the mute button when you are having sex or it makes things too mechanical. Talk about each other’s bodies. Speak about your man’s penis; he likes to hear about what he has. Talk dirty to him; if you do it correctly, most men will love it.
12. Masturbate your man. This should be a definite part of foreplay and it makes his shaft so much harder. Try different things. Tie up his cock with your bra and masturbate it. Or rub his prostate while masturbating him. Such things immensely heighten the anticipation in men.
13. The smell of your man is more exciting than you would think. During foreplay pheromones are released and can be quite arousing. Learn the smells of your man from head to toe. Just the act of you traveling up and down his body will have an effect.
14. Believe it or not, what you eat can have an effect on how your sperm tastes, if you want your woman to enjoy oral sex then you need to make sure you taste good. Try eating things with lemon, cardamon, peppermint or cinnamon in.
15. While we are talking about food, stay away from garlic and onions if you are planning some sex later. They give your breath a foul taste and can put off your man.
16. Garlic and onions can create further problems if your man has them regularly. They can give a foul taste to his cum and you won’t like giving him head. Some other foods that your man should avoid for this reason include asparagus and curry.
17. One thing you have to experience is sex outdoors. Just make sure you don’t get caught. Sex in your own backyard when the neighbors are away can be quite exciting.
18. If your man is too busy to have sex with you, you can effectively seduce him this way. When he is sitting on his chair, working, get below the table and start licking his cock through his pants. No man can resist that!
The Right Sex Position Means a Lot
19. The missionary position is the most used one for a reason, it is comfortable for both parties and enables a man to penetrate deeply.
20. Another reason the missionary position is good is that it enables you to see your partners facial expressions, you will know just how much she is enjoying herself.
21. Close body contact can be highly arousing, try laying fully on top of a woman without penetrating her. You will both feel the sensations of each others bodies.
22. Have your lady ride you like a cowgirl. This is a great way to break the routing of the missionary position.
23. Doggy style is perfect for those who like anal sex or are just after something different. The feeling on your penis is a lot different in this position.
24. Have you heard of the spoons position? Try it out. This is probably the most non-stressing positions of all. It only requires you and your partner to lie side by side in the form of a spoon and allowing him to penetrate you anally. You could also alternatively take his penis between your legs and masturbate him.
25. In the spoons position, if you could just twist your body a little, you could allow for some great clitoral stimulation for himself. Your man could penetrate you vaginally.
Table Manners and Sex!
26. Bring food items into your erotic experience. Sweet sticky items like chocolate sauce and honey are great. Try licking a lollipop and then rubbing it up and down his penis then licking it off.
27. Grapes and ice cubes can be great fun. Run them along each other’s bodies and feel the cold sensations tingling all over.
28. This is another sex-citing game. Paint lines on your man with a black marker pen in a paint-by-numbers kind of pattern. Then dab different kinds of ice-cream flavors on the different regions that are formed. Ask your man to call out different numbers and you go ahead and lick the ice-cream from that particular area. This can turn real hot! Don’t forget to ask the man to return the favor.
29. One of the most exciting vegetables has to be the cucumber as it has a very phallic look to it. Make sure the cucumber is very cold before using it.
30. Sweet tasting alcohol should also be used as a sweet treat. Try pouring a little bubbly champagne on your man and then licking it off.
31. Ice cubes can be great fun, but why not liven it up with something a little out of the ordinary? Try using frozen berries or frozen fruit instead.
32. Have you heard of the sex and chocolate catchline? There’s really something to it. Chocolate has a range of chemicals that can set your hormones racing in the right direction. And better still is cheese. Sit and eat chocolate and cheese together in your prelude to sex and you will see some great things happening. Just remember to use dark chocolate.
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33. Want some early morning sex with your man? The best way to seduce him with the right breakfast is to give him cereal with almonds and lots of apple added to it. Try it; it always works.
34. There are several mood foods for sex. Avocado is one. Try it out.
35. As mentioned before, champagne can be a great sex aid, but it is also good to drink. It makes your tongue tingle and therefore makes it more sensitive when kissing. Try holding a small amount in your mouth and then swallow it just before kissing your man.
36. Always keep some good mints ready. This is handy advice because you don’t know when you will be kissing someone and that could lead to a great experience to remember for a long time.
Unleash Your Passion
37. When it comes to having your woman masturbate you, make sure you tell her exactly what you want as most women think they will hurt their man if they grasp too tight, so if you like it hard and tight let her know.
38. Try giving your man a thrill be deep throating him. This takes a bit of practice but can be enjoyable for you both. Place yourself on your knees in f
39. Most women don’t know how to deep throat. It can be painful and often uncomfortable. If that is how you feel, you could at least rub the head of his penis against the roof of your mouth, i.e. the palate.
40. A lot of women think that a man likes to have his penis licked up and down like a lolly. This isn’t always the case and if it is something you will have to tell her how you want it.
41. Now, don’t just make it too mechanical. Don’t go on sucking so very predictably that he begins getting bored. Vary your style a bit. Make some noises. Hold his penis in different ways and suck on it. It will be fun for him, and therefore for you as well.
42. Mood music is what is called for. This will help you both relax and focus completely on each other, and will help him get more satisfaction out of what you are doing to him.
43. Don’t let yourself be fooled by stories that men don’t like their anuses explored. They do. But you have to initiate them into it. The best time to do that is when you are giving them oral pleasure. Slide your finger in his ass slowly and gradually work it inside. You could lubricate your finger to do this easily. When inside, start wiggling your finger. He will find it highly pleasurable because you are directly targeting what means the most to him—his prostate.
44. Viewing pornography together before sex can be very arousing. See if you can both sit through a whole movie watching other people fuck without jumping each other.
Carnal Pleasures and Animal Positions
45. Have you heard how gorillas do it? These huge animals actually spend very little time in the actual sexual penetration part of it. But they do have a very long foreplay in which they groom each other. You can do this ritual as well.Have a bath together, get each other all soapy and slippery and so on.
46. Another animal that can teach us a lesson or two is the seal. Seals can be quite aggressive when having sex; they actually bite each other. Today, biting has been scientifically proven to be a great precursor to sex, because it stimulates blood in the area and makes it more sexually receptive. So, try some gentle biting, or some hard biting.
47. And you could always take about the giant water bug, the male of who can go on with a sexual episode for as much as a day and a half without stopping! His male ego will definitely be aroused and he will want to go on longer.
Get into Your Man’s Mind
48. Try this out. When you are in the woman on top position, do an extra maneuver. Instead of going just up and down as most women in this position do, try going in a diagonal and sideways movement as well. This is going to be really great for your man and even you will feel him more inside you. Try it!
49. Have some quick drying alcohol such as vodka ready with you. When you are into the mood for sex, take a swig of it and then lick him on the nipples and the nape of his neck. Then allow the vodka to dry. You could actually assist the whole thing by lightly blowing air on it. He is going to enjoy this to no end.
50. If you are too shy to just go ahead and touch your man, try standing behind him,with your nipples touching his back. Bring your hands to his front and touch his penis and nipples and lightly masturbate him. Gradually increase the force.
51. A classical position is the girl wrap position and it is always a hit. You have to be quite athletic for it but it sure is worth the effort; you can allow your man to penetrate you fully.
52. Try to keep your shirt on! Honestly! Some men just love the suspense . They don’t want to see their women fully naked too soon. Try giving him a striptease and see how far it goes. You could also dress up specially for giving him a striptease. How about some leather boots?
53. Another great—sorry, very great—thing for men is to give them a nice little licking when they are still limp. Just go under and give them some great swirls of the tongue and see how they harden up. This will be a great prelude to a great sexual episode. Plus, it also gives you the great confidence that you can make your man hard with just a few simple maneuvers.
54. If you want great sexual experiences every time, you will have to work on it. Try some vaginal exercises known as kegels. These exercises make the muscles in your vaginal area tighter, which means a much better sexual experience for both of you.
55. Have you heard about Ben-Wa balls? These are not mere sex toys. If you use them regularly, you can actually make your vagina much harder and sexier.
56. When you are performing about oral sex, don’t just go about pleasing your man with your mouth. The peripheral things that you do are important. You should use your hands often as well. Use them to stimulate his nipples and his anus and his prostate while you are sucking him. No man will resist that.
57. Masturbation and oral sex become extremely important when you cannot have penetrative sex, such as when you are pregnant or going through your periods. Try looking up new ways for stimulating your partner through such techniques.
58. It truly is a myth that women orgasm only when they are penetrated. It is not important actually. A man can easily stimulate your G spot or clitoris and bring you to a climax. Try educating your man on how to do this.
59. You can use your bra or panties to great effect. Just take it off sexily and then tie it to his penis, at the shaft. This will really set him into another world. You can now make things more exciting by beginning to lick him all over. See how he gets hard, and keep pulling the garment tighter all the time so that he starts feeling more and more of the wonderful sensation.
60. Kinky is great for most people. Try it out. Tie up your man, and lick him all over. If he doesn’t like being done that, you could just hold him by the wrists and have him to yourself, just as you want it.
61. Men who are performing cunnilingus on their female partners, note this—the right movement is to swirl the tongue inside the vagina and then lick upwards. This really stimulates the clitoris.
62. Say it with mirrors! It is so hot to see yourself and your partner in action. Truly incredible.
63. You could go all out and try recording the whole thing on camera as well. The very idea that you are making your own porn movie makes most people come.
64. Try the sideways position when you are performing oral sex on your female partner. Let her lie on her side with one leg on the bed and the other leg hoisted in the air. You can see her clit in its full glory and she will be greatly aroused.
65. Why not massage each other with oil and then slip slide all over each other?
66. Use your hands to great effect. When probing her vagina, make a come-here signal. This stimulates her highly sensitive upper vaginal wall and clitoris.
67. Why not have naked night? As soon as you both get home, go about your normal routing fully naked. See how long you can keep your hands of each other for
68. You could have some great excitement if you choose the right clothes and the right ambiance. Go shopping and buy some sexy lingerie, something that your partner hasn’t seen you in ever. Then set up some candles and either cook or order some great dinner. When he comes over, give him a surprise. It would set the right mood for a night full of fun.
69. Foreplay is the most important part of sex, playing with each other sets you both up for a great night.
70. Don’t only use your hands. although hands are important, you need to use everything you have got. Use your eyes to see your partner, use your nose to smell him, use your tongue to lick him and use your body to seduce him.
71. Treat your man to a nice smooth you, have your pubic hair shaved or waxed off.
72. Contact with your partner is the most important thing. Touching each other from head to toe. Discovering each others wants and needs. Enjoy every part of each other. This is what makes sex fantastic.
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