It was only when I bought my first vibrator that I realize what had been missing in my marriage. This small thing helped make my marriage complete - it is amazing what an orgasm or two can do, and how much female toys help.
Modern marriages are not about wifely duties and not enjoying sexual contact. These are marriages of the mind, body and soul. Complete participation in a marriage partnership means that a couple must be able to fulfill each other completely and part of the deal is sex. We are no longer living in the dark ages as far as sexuality is concerned.
Total intimacy does not only mean sex and trust, but these factors play a large role in contributing to complete intimacy.
I received an invitation to an adult party plan party and had no idea what it was all about at the time. Now I have been to loads of these parties and even hosted a couple myself just because I like female toys. A colleague sent me the invite and I only accepted it because I liked her and wanted to become friends.
When I arrived at her home that Saturday, a lot of ladies had arrived before me and the atmosphere was thick with excitement. I still didn’t know what it was all about so Bev explained in and to be frank I was quite nervous.
She was right.
When the lady arrived and started unpacking all her goods, I have to admit I was fascinated. She gave a good and amusing talk and actually was very good at her job, explaining how her experience with female toys and potions saved her marriage. It was then I became concerned that my orgasm was definitely missing from my marriage.
She said that experimentation with female toys had saved her marriage and although mine wasn’t in trouble yet, I knew things could change quickly. I didn’t get that turned on sexually by my husband and this could be a problem.
On her suggestion I bought a small waterproof double bullet vibrator unit, a role play outfit (the French maid) and motion lotion. She told me that bullet vibrators are always the best female toys to get if it is your first attempt, they are not so intimidating.
When I shared all this information with my husband, he was very open and also really excited for my package to arrive. This was the first of many similar brown paper packages we have opened together and he sometimes say why don’t you order this or that, so I now have quite a collection. We play together now and sometimes it’s a game of Monopoly, but sometimes its also the police woman locking the bad boy up in handcuffs with no get out of jail free card we love Adult Party Plan.
