Such small things are able to make such huge differences in our lives. I found this out when I bought my first vibrator. This female toy has not only been responsible for me discovering the pleasure and importance of orgasm, it has also helped many other women too.
Sex and marriage work hand in hand and gone are the days when women are expected to lie flat on their backs and not take any pleasure in this side of the marriage. This sort of thing can actually make or break a relationship.
Complete intimacy means that sex and trust also play a role. If you can trust a man enough to have good sex with him, then you can trust him for anything.
My introduction to female toys came about by accident - I received and invitation to an adult party plan party. This was sent by a work colleague from a partner company and as we had a good working relationship, this was a good opportunity for us to get to know each other better.
When I arrived there was such a buzz in the room, the excitement was palpable and I asked Bev, what is this all about? When she told me I nearly dropped dead with fright, but she is a nice Christian girls so I was reassured. She told me that this would be great fun and I would learn a lot.
After a drink or two I began to relax - everyone was having such a good time.
When the adult party play lady arrived, we crowded around her - fascinated. Her talk was amusing, down to earth, original and educational. I learned from her that the addition of female toys to her marriage had saved it from dying a lingering death and this was good news.
My husband and I had spoken about it, but both being a bit ignorant about the importance of mutual fulfillment, had not really allowed it to bug us or pursue it any further.
On her suggestion I bought a small waterproof double bullet vibrator unit, a role play outfit (the French maid) and motion lotion. She told me that bullet vibrators are always the best female toys to get if it is your first attempt, they are not so intimidating.
When I shared all this information with my husband, he was very open and also really excited for my package to arrive. This was the first of many similar brown paper packages we have opened together and he sometimes say why don’t you order this or that, so I now have quite a collection. We play together now and sometimes it’s a game of Monopoly, but sometimes its also the police woman locking the bad boy up in handcuffs with no get out of jail free card we love Adult Party Plan.
