Whether it is true or not that women will only try anal sex twice, apparently once to see what the fuss is about and a second time to see if it still hurts as much. What is true is that you will either love it or hate it. I loved my first experience at anal sex, but unfortunately I was so carried away by the moment that I forgot to use any lube. I was OK, as my pussy was so wet, I didn’t actually feel any pain. This is however not advisable behavior and lube should always be used.
Although I only ever had anal sex with my ex-husband – for me this is a very personal experience. Not for lack of being asked however, really just from shyness.
Certainly I have had a few boyfriends since who have asked me, but I have actually said no. Why – don’t ask, because I don’t know. The first time this guy was already fucking me silly, but I just couldn’t bingo myself to get that intimate with him. My biggest concern being poop, I didn’t want this near stranger to have my poop on his dick, although my bodily fluids seemed to be a different thing.
In retrospect, both the past partners who wanted to try sexual advances on my posterior, also happened to have rather large cocks – I have a taste for men with big cocks. Thinking about my ex-husband rather s mall member did not inspire me to say yes. So there is definitely and element of the chicken" in me; many people fall prey to this fear factor.
There is not one thing with being afraid to have any kind of sex that makes you feel uncomfortable, and there is nothing wrong with saying no; just as there is absolutely nothing wrong with having anal sex althoug a little practise with an I Plug may improve your experience. The only wrong thing is when someone forces or tries to coerce you into doing something you don’t want to do. Some people fit sexually together, others don’t and this is a fact of life, rather say no and don’t risk fitting a square peg into a round hole.
